Tuesday, July 27, 2010

How Do You Get Through Relationship Cycles?


Do all relationships go through cycles? The beginning is the most shallow part of the relationship. Most of the time it's off pure physical attraction. Which leads to you wanting to be around or with that person every second of the day. Then you have what some call the 7 month itch. At this point you two start to get on each others nerves. Some may decide to take a break from the relationship because let's face it, they don't want to break up but they don't have a clue what to do to fix the problem other than put the relationship on a time out.


I believe that relationships flow in cycles. The I Love You Cycle and The I Can't Stand You Right Now Cycle. LOL! This haunts me because many people look at this as maybe this is just not working. He or she just not the one for me. Is that the actual case? When you don't have any other problems or issues in the relationship is it possible that people look for something to bicker about?


What do you do at those times that does not include taking a break?