Happy Birthday Mom!

Hey Dolls,

I literally hate the winter and that shouldn't be a big surprise...look at my name. One of the best things of winter though is all the birthdays of all the people who mean so much to me. In November alone, I have 7 birthdays to celebrate. The most important is November 7th which is my mother's birthday. Good old scorpio!

I love you Mommy & Happy Birthday!

Smoochies xoxo

When is your mom's birthday?

Living in the "Fast Lane" with Shakeera Frazer!

Hey Dolls,

One of my best friends in the enitre world Shakeera Frazer has this amazing book out that she self published. Her book is titled "Fast Lane" and it's a story of four trendy NYC girls that all have a common bond of friendship. They go through issues that all friends face and problems in thier personal lives. It's such a great read that I didn't want to put the book down.

Shakeera has also written for http://www.guysandgirlsonline.com/, and she has done radio interviews on The Industry Takeover on PNCRADIO.fm with me and my co-host Miss Nina Leigh, and Writers Life Chats on Blogtalkradio.com with host Kisha Green.

This summer Shakeera had a book launch party at her house and it was uber fab. That's where the above picture was taken.

For more information on Shakeera Frazer and her book Fast Lane you can visit her website http://www.shakeerafrazer.com/

What books are you guys reading now?

Summer B on The Midday Invasion

Hey Dolls,

I am so pleased to announce that I've been added to the Midday Invasion radio show on PNCRADIO.fm. The Midday Invasion is hosted by Indy and DJ Max Carnage Monday - Thursday from 1pm - 4pm. I cover the entertainment news at 1:30pm and 3:30pm. What's really cool about it is that they understand how busy I am so I can do my portion of the show on location where ever I'm at. Of course days when my schedule is less hetic I am in the studio with the Indy and DJ Max Carnage having a blast. This show is Awesome!

I'm still do my show The Industry Takeover every Saturday 12pm - 2pm. Now you just get more of me during the week.

The Midday Invasion airs Mon-Thurs 1pm - 4pm on http://www.pncradio.fm/

The Industry Takeover airs every Saturday 12pm-2pm on http://www.pncradio.fm/

xoxo-Summer B

New Singersroom.com Article: "Is It My Fault?"

Hey Dolls,

Check out my new article for http://www.singersroom.com/ called, "Is It My Fault?". I like to listen to music draw out the central theme or topic and write on it relating to life. This weeks song is by a very talented singer and songwriter by the name of Wynter Gordon who is signed to Atlantic Records. If you read CD credits you will see her name for artist such as Mary J Blige, Danity Kane and J.Lo. She has been featured on songs with Flo Rida and David Guetta as well.

Her song "Created A Monster" really stood out to me because a lot of times women put up with half ass men for all the wrong reasons. Or women enable men to be lazy and not stepping up to the plate when we need them to.

Here is a link to the article "Is It My Fault?" http://www.singersroom.com/lifestyle/feature-story-193.asp

Be sure to leave comments on the Singersroom.com website and remember all comments are appreciated...Positive or Negative!

You can also check out the song "Created A Monster" by Wynter Gordon right here...http://www.singersroom.com/music/Wynter-Gordon/Created-A-Monster/1932


xoxo-Summer

Summer Terry is added to Guys and Girls Team!

Hey Dolls,

I tell God works in mysterious ways. I am being blessed in so many ways that its crazy. Writing about love, heartbreak, and relationships is not the avenue I chose to write about. It sort of chose me. It's what naturally comes out when I start spilling my thought through this screen with you guys.

Due to that and some good word of mouth I have been added to the Guys and Girls Team on http://www.guysandgirlsonline.com/. There you will find tons of creativity from many different writers all contributing different styles of writing about relationships. I will be adding my voice to the mix so you can also check me out there expanding my writing branch to bigger things. They even did an introductory post about me so I feel very special. I have to thank Tasha Mitchell and Jim Hernandez! You guys are amazing!

Become a member of http://www.guysandgirlsonline.com/ because you won't want to miss this journey!

Summer is added to the Singersroom.com Family!

Hey Dolls,


I just received some great news today. I am officially the new Relationship Columnist for Singersroom.com. This is soo exciting. I have been writing for soo many websites here and there for soo long and now I can officially call Singersroom.com my Family!

Get ready for some juicy exciting new articles on relationship, sex, love and all that goodness wrapped in one!

Is Texting Ruining The Dating Process?

Hey Dolls,

In a day in age where technology is basically used for everything you can say its become a huge part of the average Americans life. You don't even have to have real life conversations anymore since they all seem to be so easy as a click of a button. This leads me to my question. Is texting ruining the dating process? And if so, how can we incorporate texting to make it more interesting?

I remember a time where you meet a guy, exchange information and actually get to hear his voice. You know what I mean. When those first couple of phone calls go on to the wee hours in the morning just getting to know each other. Finding out whats that person's favorite color, favorite food, what makes them laugh, what makes them angry, what their passions are, what their goals are. All the things people fail to find out because they lack those conversations. I ask myself does this even happen anymore? With everyone on these social networking sites such as myspace.com, tagged.com, twitter.com, and even facebook now it makes it so impersonal to get to know someone. Half the time people are fabricating who they really are and you never even know. But that's a whole other blog!

Then we have cell phones with the texting, BBM's (blackberry users), AIM's, Google chat, etc. I don't know who started this rumor that women would rather talk through text then actually receiving a phone call but its not true. Women actually love getting phone calls from the guy they're excited that they just met. Unfortunately, its either men have gotten lazy or they just don't know a phone call when getting to know a woman is way better than a text any day. Don't get it twisted, texting and all that other stuff can be fun as well if done correctly. So I'm going to set the record straight on some Do's and Don't when texting a lady!

1. Don't text me in place of the first getting to know each other phone call.
1. Do text me the next day letting me know it was nice to meet me.

2. Don't text me sexual thoughts you had of me after knowing me for only a month. We not that cool!
2. Do text me something sweet that is also respectful that you think will put a smile on my face.

3. Don't text me or call me for that matter after 10pm if that is the only time your fingers know my number. If that is the only time you have available to talk to me you got the wrong one here.
3. Do call or text me nice morning greetings to start my day off.

4. Don't text me if you want to ask me on a date? It makes you look weak. (To me at least)
4. Do call me if you want to ask me on a date.

5. Don't text me to have a serious conversation. Really how serious can it be through text?
5. Do call me if you have something serious to talk about. Its easier to read a person's voice and how they communicate when you can actually hear their voice.

So guys this post is not to scare you about texting it's just to let you know what a lady expects. Now if you are trying to attract little girls then those shenanigans might work but trust a real woman would not expect nothing less!