Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Fave Pink Beauty Products

Fave Pink Beauty Products

Fave Pink Beauty Products by topshelfdiva on polyvore.com


Hey Divas, 


I'm a big fan of pink cheeks and lips on brown skin. That's why some of my fave beauty products that I use on a consistent basis are Elf Cosmetics Pink Passion blush, NARS lipgloss in Turkish Delight, and Maybelline Color Sensational lipstick in Make Me Pink. 


Rosey Cheeks in the winter are FAB! Take these products for a test drive at your local Sephora and Drug Stores. 

Smooches!


6 Months Natural Anniversary




Hey Lovely Divas,

Today I make 6 months completely natural and I'm astonished at how much my hair has changed. I've been that girl with really thin hair. I think a lot of that was poor maintenance. Since going natural I see my hair growing in the way it was when I was a child B.R (Before Relaxers). Its thick, and full, and soft...OMG I just love it!



I can say it is a lot to maintain but it is well worth it. I rarely wear my natural hair out. I like to keep it in protective styles such as wearing wigs. Today I felt like being free and just wear it out. I wondered to myself if people think I'm bald because I'm always wearing wigs, lol. But clearly I'm not. I'm just maintaining the health of my strands.

So I'm going to continue moisturizing, conditioning, and taking my vitamins to get continued growth!



Let's see where it'll be in one year. In the meantime I will keep you all posted here.

Smooches!!




Thursday, November 10, 2011

In relationships do you think people can change for the better?

Change can be a good thing; change can be a bad thing; and most importantly change can be a much necessary thing! But my question is, in relationships do you think people can actually change? 

There have been many times that I've heard the saying, "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" and I know most of you have heard it too. Does that mean we are not allowed to forgive people for mistakes? Yes mistakes should only happen once technically but not one person is perfect. Haven't you made questionable mistakes in your life that you regret and just wished someone would forgive you? If so than we all have transgressions that we are not proud of its what changes you make to correct those faults. 

Now back to relationships, let's just say they can bring you the best feelings imaginable and the worst all at the same time. Can anyone say roller-coaster? When a partner has wronged you in the past do you think it's possible to forgive them? You have some women who never forgive; one strike and you're out! Then you have those who forgive too much; those are doormats. Don't get me wrong I believe in forgiving and that people can change but most times we woman want men to change when we want them to. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way but that doesn't mean they can't change it just has to be when they are ready to. You'll hear the words used over and over again, "baby I'm gonna change, I'm sorry" and that B.S! I say it's B.S because until you can actually sit down and articulate your issue, why you do the things you do to damage the relationship, admit fault and give examples on how you've changed then you haven't. If you can do that it will give your partner a chance to clearly decide on whether to believe you have changed and to forgive you. I believe everyone should be forgiven, that doesn't mean forget. It just means to forgive and move on. Now you can move on without that person or decide to move on with that person and rebuild and trust again. And that person has to realize that they are to earn that trust back it's not just given. 

Therefore let's stop being so harsh on people and communicate better. But if you honestly feel that that person is not ready to change then walk away. Don't sit in it thinking they are going to change for you. They only change when they have realized the mistakes they've made. Some people its pretty quick and others take longer to realize. But they eventually do, the question is will you be around to see it! 

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Natural Beauty Look


So I've been wearing a really toned down look when it comes to makeup lately. Most of it has to do with it being too hot to cake on makeup and the other part of it is I just don't want to look overdone all the time. Plus I must admit I've fallen absolutely in love with my lip combo in this look (Turkish Delight + Make Me Pink). I DIE!!!!

If you want to see how I got this look and what products I used check out my video here!

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Beyonce "4" Album Review



Let me preface this by stating that I have been a Beyonce Fan since Destiny's Child days singing "No,No,No" from the fast version to the slow version. With this 4 album its her release from the chains of Papa Knowles and a sense of independence of Mrs. Beyonce Knowles-Carter. I must admit when I first heard the album it took me a while to find some favorites unlike other Beyonce projects where songs stood out to me in the first listen. I'm just being honest. One thing is for sure Bey knows how begin the promo for a new album releasing 3 completely different type of songs consecutively. Her lead single "Run The World" was controversial from the start because people were already familiar with "Pon de Floor" by Major Lazer. Some were just dead set against liking it and others were steady bumping it and praising it as the beginning of Queen Bey's Reign aka Bey Season.

I must say "1+1" is a beautiful ballad accompanied by sound of strings and piano. I like the fact that there aren’t any signs of heavy drums just the rawness of her voice. You can almost feel Bey’s heart pour out in the lyrics, “and I don’t know when I’m gone die but I hope that I’m gone die by you, hey, I don’t know much about fighting but I, I know I will fight for you”. You can pretty much expect the same flow for "I Miss You". It's a universal track which makes it unique. It can relate to a loved one or a lost one which will resonate with most. However the lyrics are really just repetition but it works for the sound achieved. Don’t look for powerful vocals belting on this track. Take it for what it is and let it flow.





We all know Beyonce has never been the type to speak candidly about her personal life or gush about her marriage to rapper Jay Z but if you listen to "Rather Die Young", "I Care", and "Start Over" you'll find out all you need to know. This album may be Beyonce speaking not as a single girl or girlfriend but as a wife. Marriage can be a roller coaster with good times and bad times where you're going to argue and bicker. I believe in "I Care" she touches on that. It also has that live band sound that I could only imagine how it would sound performed in concert. Using her words Beyonce expresses her love for her husband in "Rather Die Young" with all the risks it might have been. If there’s any question if Bey is the “ride or die” type let’s just say she would never leave her man hanging out there. "Start Over" to me feels like the soundtrack of the album. Grown woman Bey is showing growth and happiness. Don't expect any divorce papers being signed she clearly sends the message of not giving up in relationships and opening up the idea of starting over. Relationships have cycles where at times you may not be on the same page but that’s when you decide to make it work and that's exactly what she belts out singing “let’s start over, We can’t let our good love die, Maybe we can start over, Give love another life”.

There are some songs that kinda left me in limbo. "Love On Top" takes me back to the 80's or early 90's of R&B. Keeping it classy with a live band sound accented with drums and saxophones.  "End of Time" sounds a bit like "Run The World" with similar production with the percussion's just its a slower pace. It brings a feel of mixture between 1990's and 2011 with an indescribable genre. The only song on the album that has a feature is "Party"with Kanye West and Andre 300. The song is sampled from Dough E Fresh and Slick Ricks "La Di Da Di". It's a real mellow song although I don't think it would be single even though Andre 300 sounds great on anything.



Now down to my favorites! One thing Beyonce has the ability to do is relate to women all over whether you're the girl searching for love, in love, or over love. I would have to say "Best Thing I Never Had" is the female version of Chris Brown's "Look At Me Now" in a sense. Singing to an ex "thank God you blew it, I thank God I dodged a bullet, I'm so over you so baby good lookin out" and closing each chorus with "sucks to be you right now" making it the ultimate break up cleansing song. Now "Countdown" would be my favorite track on the entire album. Even though Bey claims she killed Sasha Fierce in 2010 I hear glimpses of her in this song. With her quick Destiny's Child style singing laced with a slight flow that I'm sure was rubbed off by her famous husband makes this a great track and hopefully a single. This also may be one of the few upbeat songs on the track list besides "Run This World". You can hear a more vulnerable side of Beyonce in "I Was Here
As a person who has purchased all 3 of her solo projects and 7 Destiny's Child albums I can say its very different. If I had to compare it to any of her other albums it would possibly be Dangerously In Love but a 2.0 version. I see more growth, vulnerability, and independence. I remember the days when Bey would never curse on a track, now she cussin in songs. It is different than what most Beyonce fans would probably expect from her but it is a more mature grown up Beyonce. I wouldn't call it a dance album, a pop album or even a R&B album. It's more like a gumbo of genres!


Tuesday, May 31, 2011

The Future of R&B Male Groups....#DivaStamp


I had the pleasure of Guest Co-hosting on Urbanlatinoradio.com with Pretty Lou and the Front Stage Radio team a few months back and I was introduced to this R&B group Gotham Citi. These guys came in the studio with so much energy and not to mention they had the chat room going crazy with female fans. With me never hearing their music I really didn't know what to expect, but I will tell you this...I wasn't expecting to hear what I heard. These guys sound AMAZING in person! Better than most of these big name people They way they harmonize gave me goosebumps. Here's some footage of them acapella.



Check out their song "Bedroom Floor" on itunes

Monday, May 30, 2011

She's Pretty For a Dark Skinned Girl.....

I just hate it when I hear "Oh she's pretty for a dark skinned girl". What is that supposed to insinuate that dark skinned girls can't be considered beautiful? Society has the perception that light skin, long hair, colored eyes is the only thing that can be considered beautiful. It makes my stomach turn.

I found this video that I think everyone should watch, take in, and learn from. I love my brown skin and I wouldn't have it any other way!



Dark Girls: Preview from Bradinn French on Vimeo.